Saturday, July 28, 2018
Health, Fitness, & Diet ~ That Kick in the Pants
I was setting goals, reaching them and at the end of June 2017 I was only 7 pounds away from my biggest goal set. To be 155 by the time A turned 2. I set that goal when I looked at pictures after his first birthday and baptism. I knew I could get there.
As things go, I stopped using the scale to measure and focused on other areas to show progress. I stepped on the scale over the Winter and was blown away by the number and how far from my goal I was. It had gone up, way up.
I knew I hadn't worked out as consistently with it being Winter and was less active overall. I knew food changed because in Winter, in Minnesota, comfort food is so nice on the cold long days. So I expected it to be higher, but not as high as it was.
Then in April while at the dentist my blood pressure read higher than my usual normal. I chalked that up to having just had a coffee shortly before going and the extra caffeine added to my system.
Fast forward to June 2018. Back at my usual yearly doctor appointment, I stepped on the scale. I felt defeated. I was nearly 20 pounds heavier than the year before. All that work I had done leading up to 2017 since my youngest was born and here I was back at 6 weeks post birth weight.
I was frustrated leading up because no matter what I ate, no matter what activity I did, I couldn't change the scale number and the number on the tape measure. Pictures showed no changes either. I could no longer go off clothing sizes as my indicator of success because I had pants as small as XS up to size 10 depending on the type of pants, length, cut, etc. Shirts weren't any better, small up to large depending on the shirt.
When the nurse told my blood pressure and I noticed that it was still high, that is when I got the courage to say something to my doctor. We talked over what had been going on and any changes. The only change I made in the year was by going on a birth control pill.
The thought never occurred to me that my weight would go up, let along by that much. Or it would affect my bp because it had never affected it negatively before. But as pregnancy and having kids does, it changes your body in a lot of ways. You may not know the change until you go back to doing something the way you used to.
So, we began with the obvious and easiest thing to try. Stop taking birth control because that was the only big change I had made and do a recheck in 3 weeks.
I stopped taking it, did my usual working out, trying to eat better and waited for three weeks to go by. The only other big change I did after my appointment was I stopped drinking pop and frappes daily, which I had been trying to do for a long time. This doctor appointment helped give me the much needed push to find the willpower to resist them. A much needed change on many levels (I will go more into this on another post).
Three weeks later I faced my recheck, with kids in tow. If I could get my bp to go down and have kids in tow when they were doing the recheck, while answering a thousand questions coming from both kids at once, then I would win this.
My bp was back to my usual normal and my weight was down by 4 pounds. 4 pounds may not seem like a lot, but for the fact I couldn't loose anything no matter what I tried and it had only been three weeks, I was happy.
It is hard to make changes sometimes, even when they are needed. Sometimes we just need that little extra wake up call, that little extra push, that kick in the pants.
This one made me make some much needed changes. This one gave me the courage to speak up about my health with my doctor and the frustrations I was feeling. This one gave me the willpower needed to make some better daily habits happen. This one gave me the creativity to find a workout combo I really do enjoy and can do easily anywhere. This one was the catalyst for other changes that I am working on too.
I encourage you to find your kick in the pants that you need to make the changes needed, to move forward. I also encourage you to talk to your doctor with your frustrations and health concerns you have.
Share you story. What was the catalyst for the much change you needed face?